I witnessed some unfortunate self-induced pressure this past archery elk season in Colorado.
My buddy drew a tag that took over 10 years to obtain. Normally this is supposed to be a fun filled great hunt, and it was for the most part, but my buddy put too much pressure on himself to harvest a bull. It started with the application. He was worried he wouldn?t have enough time to scout, shoot, hunt and be prepared to the level he wanted to be at. He was asked to be the best man for a wedding out of state in the middle of archery elk season, so the wedding and the bachelor party the weekend prior was in the back of his mind as something that would hinder his ability to get ready for this hunt and have enough time.
The prep he puts in is always on-point and he is an accomplished hunter. But man, this year he really stressed himself out. He has harvested a mountain goat, bear and several elk and deer, but a nice 6x6 has always eluded him. Wanting a really nice 6x6 was what he wanted, but the lure of big bulls in this area also fueled the fire to harvest a great bull.
At work, he has a stressful engineering job, as he is the top PM in the country for roadway design at his company. This past year had another job heavy load this year, and was another factor in the stress to stay on top of projects, submit for additional jobs, etc.
We have helped others hunt in this unit before and know some good areas. Another friend of mine is a local and he took us scouting to a couple spots he suggested. I scouted twice with my buddy and he went up another 4 times. I helped him with virtual scouting as well as map study and other research.
He constantly worried himself with not having enough scouting in, not shooting enough, etc. I would tell him that he knows how to hunt, so his current scouting trips were enough (coupled with the previous knowledge we have of the unity) and that he just needed to keep shooting and be confident with his bow and effective range. He would call me and not have the confidence he normally had, and I would work to build up his confidence in our conversations.
The first day out we got on a 320 class 6x6 that was a very nice bull. We watched it for 30 minutes and he was going back and forth the entire time floundering on if he wanted to harvest this bull or look for a larger one, as we have seen larger bulls during our scouting trips. We decided he should stalk up to it and make a decision the closer he got. At 35 yards he was thinking he should take it, and he must have stepped on something that gave him away, as the bull trotted off.
At this point it was as if he jinxed himself for the rest of the trip, as he said he will be upset if he does not get a bull that size after essentially passing on this bull the first day. I don?t really believe in jinxes, but I think mentally he put additional doubt and stress on himself by passing up that bull for the rest of the trip.
He stayed in elk camp for 10 more days after that opening weekend, with me helping him 6 days. He had several encounters and shots that would hit limbs and small trees that further shook his confidence. Then he had to host the bachelor party one weekend, go to work that week and then the following weekend go to FL for the wedding.
My buddy drew a tag that took over 10 years to obtain. Normally this is supposed to be a fun filled great hunt, and it was for the most part, but my buddy put too much pressure on himself to harvest a bull. It started with the application. He was worried he wouldn?t have enough time to scout, shoot, hunt and be prepared to the level he wanted to be at. He was asked to be the best man for a wedding out of state in the middle of archery elk season, so the wedding and the bachelor party the weekend prior was in the back of his mind as something that would hinder his ability to get ready for this hunt and have enough time.
The prep he puts in is always on-point and he is an accomplished hunter. But man, this year he really stressed himself out. He has harvested a mountain goat, bear and several elk and deer, but a nice 6x6 has always eluded him. Wanting a really nice 6x6 was what he wanted, but the lure of big bulls in this area also fueled the fire to harvest a great bull.
At work, he has a stressful engineering job, as he is the top PM in the country for roadway design at his company. This past year had another job heavy load this year, and was another factor in the stress to stay on top of projects, submit for additional jobs, etc.
We have helped others hunt in this unit before and know some good areas. Another friend of mine is a local and he took us scouting to a couple spots he suggested. I scouted twice with my buddy and he went up another 4 times. I helped him with virtual scouting as well as map study and other research.
He constantly worried himself with not having enough scouting in, not shooting enough, etc. I would tell him that he knows how to hunt, so his current scouting trips were enough (coupled with the previous knowledge we have of the unity) and that he just needed to keep shooting and be confident with his bow and effective range. He would call me and not have the confidence he normally had, and I would work to build up his confidence in our conversations.
The first day out we got on a 320 class 6x6 that was a very nice bull. We watched it for 30 minutes and he was going back and forth the entire time floundering on if he wanted to harvest this bull or look for a larger one, as we have seen larger bulls during our scouting trips. We decided he should stalk up to it and make a decision the closer he got. At 35 yards he was thinking he should take it, and he must have stepped on something that gave him away, as the bull trotted off.
At this point it was as if he jinxed himself for the rest of the trip, as he said he will be upset if he does not get a bull that size after essentially passing on this bull the first day. I don?t really believe in jinxes, but I think mentally he put additional doubt and stress on himself by passing up that bull for the rest of the trip.
He stayed in elk camp for 10 more days after that opening weekend, with me helping him 6 days. He had several encounters and shots that would hit limbs and small trees that further shook his confidence. Then he had to host the bachelor party one weekend, go to work that week and then the following weekend go to FL for the wedding.